3 Tips For Living In The Last DaysWhat can we do about the perilous times we are facing in this present age?  It seems like every time we watch the television innocent people are being killed or hurt badly.  Jonathan and I have decided years ago that we do not want cable in our home, because there is nothing positive for us or our children to watch.  Instead we have invested in movies that will build our spirit up.  This is our attempt to protect our family from the mess that is on television.  However,  I do get a chance to watch some cable TV while I exercise at the gym.

Yesterday, while I was doing some cardio, I saw on the news that someone has bombed the Boston Marathon.  I could not believe someone would do that to all those innocent people.  My first thought was, Lord, it seems like every week people are killing innocent people.  After thinking about the Boston marathon and wondering why all of these killings are happening, the Lord lead me to this scripture passage, 2 Timothy chapter 3: 2-5. [click to continue…]

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Do Your Job!

April 4, 2013

Do Your Job!In a previous post, I explained the roles of each spouse in a Christian marriage.  I referenced the scripture passage Ephesians 5:21-32.  God designed marriage in such a way that when we work together as a team we lack nothing.  Realistically, most marriages are not in balanced.  One spouse may be doing more than another or everyone is doing and no one is showing how much they need each other.  I believe that is why marriages fall apart after so many years of being together.

For years the marriage is operating as team but  no one is expressing how grateful they are to one another, and then one day the couple believes they would be better off without each other.  Occasionally they realize how much they need each other and they get remarried.  Are you getting tired of fulfilling your responsibility in your marriage?  Whether because you are not being appreciated or you feel like it is too much work.  Click to continue…

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Can You Hear Me Now?Anyone who has a cellular phone has heard the statement,” can you hear me know” at one time or another.  If you have a good cell phone provider then you were probably not the one saying it, but you have definitely heard it said to you in the past.  When you are on the phone with someone and there is a bad connection it can be really frustrating.  After multiple attempts at trying to hear what the other person is saying, out of exhaustion you finally say,” I’ll call you later.”

In our marriage sometimes we can have a bad connection while trying to communicate with each other.  It can be very frustrating when we are expressing our feelings to our spouse and they interpret them to mean something entirely different then what we were intending for it to mean.   What can we do when frustration arises due to miscommunication in our marriage?   It is not as simple as saying” I’ll call you later,”  because we are not talking on the phone.  However, we can suggest that we talk more about the topic later on once we have both calmed down. Click to continue…

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No Body Wins, In The Blame Game!

March 5, 2013

I have always been a fan of games.  The neighborhood that I grew up in was full of children around my age, so we played together quite a bit.  The majority of us enjoyed playing sports so we would play all kinds of games.  Games such as kickball, baseball, basketball, football, tennis, soccer, tag, hide [...]

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Is Flirting Adultery?

February 13, 2013

The gym where I workout has a daycare so people with children can come and work out.  One day before I left the gym, I found myself in a conversation with the workers.  One of the employees was talking about her personal trainer, a guy who also works at the gym.  She was going on [...]

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4 Tips To Celebrating Valentine’s Day As A Family!

February 8, 2013

Celebrating Valentine’s Day with your children is not ideal, however, it is the reality for many couples who wish to celebrate it on February 14th.  Celebrating Valentine’s Day with your children does not have to be a bad thing. We can use this opportunity to give our children a firsthand look at love in the [...]

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5 Subtle Ways To Tell Your Husband You Desire Him While In Public!

January 24, 2013

Have you ever been at a family or business  gathering  with your husband and had a sudden desire to want to make love to him?  Your having a conversation with a family member or a friend and during the conversation you happen to glance your husband’s  way.  With just a glance he has trigger your [...]

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3 Easy Steps To Having A Great New Year!

January 19, 2013

This is the most exciting time of each year, the beginning of a New Year!  A time when people are writing their  New Year’s Resolutions.  During the beginning of the year is always a great time because people are determined to do more with their life.  It’s so wonderful that we have this self examination [...]

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How To Have A Great Marriage, When The Romance Is Gone!

December 12, 2012

The best part about planning a wedding, is being able to take a break from planning a wedding!  The time when you and your best friend, your future spouse, are able to get away from everyone else and just have fun with each other.  I often looked forward to Jonathan picking me up for a [...]

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Let Your Word, Be Your Bond!

November 7, 2012

Many of us speak too soon during a conversation with others. I have learned the hard way many times.  I have often committed myself to helping someone, only to realize later that I am already obligated somewhere else. When this happens I only have two options either I run myself into the ground or I [...]

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