4 Steps To Finding Joy in your Christian MarriageThere are two major decisions we will make in our life that have the potential to affect us long term; who will be our God and who will be our mate. Sadly enough, many people view being married and being a Christian as a life with restrictions and lack of excitement.  In John 10:10 Jesus said, 10 The thief comes only in order to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance [to the full, till it overflows].  It was never Gods intention to take from our lives; He desires only to make our lives better.

The things we consider to be restrictions are actually Gods way of protecting us from what will ultimately destroy us.  We must understand that being married is a blessing and is also Gods way of providing a covering for us. We can better understand the importance of two people working together by reading this scripture. [click to continue…]


How To Get The Love Back In Your Marriage! 4 Easy Steps!Marriage does not come with instructions. The only tips we may receive about marriage are given to us the day we are married by other married couples.  Which usually include sayings such as these; “She’s always right.” “Ignore the little things” and “You have to pick your battles.” These sayings do not prepare us for marriage.

We have all been given last minute advice about marriage.  The tips can come from people who are happy in their marriage, people who are not happy in their marriage, and people who are just repeating non encouraging beliefs as a way of conversation.  Before Jonathan and I got married we took pre-marital counseling classes, and yet, we still face challenges in our marriage. So there is no way to avoid struggles in marriage.  We have to take marriage and life one day at a time. [click to continue…]


How To Be A Christian!

November 6, 2015

How To Be A ChristianThere have been a few things I have found to be difficult to do in my life. When Jonathan and I were dating, I had to learn how to communicate with him. I remember the first time I hung up the phone on him during the middle of a disagreement, that was an experience I will never forget. He called me back right away which I did not expect. When I answered the phone I was expecting him to yell and be upset, but he was calm. Jonathan said something similar to this, “ Nikki, if we’re going to have a great relationship, we’re going to have to learn to communicate with one another.” After that I immediately starting working on my communication skills. God knows exactly how to join two people together. He joins two people who are strong where the other is weak.

The areas that bother you about your spouse bother you for one or two reasons. [click to continue…]


Busy Christians Live Better Lives!

April 2, 2014

Many of us have heard the sayings “misery loves company” and “smiling is contagious.”  Both of these sayings are expressing two different kinds of emotions, people who are gloomy and people who are cheerful.  The sayings are different, however, they share the same idea that people often become who they are around.  It is essential […]

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Are You Making Rash Decisions In Your Marriage?

March 17, 2014

On Sunday evening I was reading an article about a woman named Marissa Alexander.  The article stated that Marissa and her husband had recently given birth to their baby.  Marissa’s husband came home one day and questioned whether or not the baby was his and accused her of cheating on him.  The accusation turned physical […]

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10 Signs Of A Great Leader!

March 12, 2014

God has placed greatness inside of everyone, however, he expects us to search out why we were created. The bible confirms this in Proverbs 25:2 “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter;  to search out a matter is the glory of kings.” In a previous post I explained that everyone was created with […]

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Why Do I Feel Drained, After Church?

March 5, 2014

It is amazing how God can take one message given by the preacher and use it to speak to everyone at the same time in a different way.  This past Sunday the word came from Matthew the 25th chapter. The minister used this scripture passage to pose the question; will you be ready when Jesus […]

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God, The Ice Breaker!

February 27, 2014

When Jonathan and I created our website ChristianMarriageHQ.com, we felt it was necessary for our first post to explain the meaning of a Christian marriage.  In this article we explained that having a Christian marriage is not just a married couple who believes in Jesus but who also studies his word to find out how […]

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Stop Fighting Your Enemies!

February 19, 2014

Many of us invest too much time and energy trying to fight what people believe to be true about us.  Or what they are saying about us.  Today I am telling you, stop fighting your enemies.  One of my favorite television evangelists to listen too is T.D. Jakes.  I would like to quote something he […]

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My Valentine’s Day Challenge!

February 11, 2014

It is February and love is in the air!  In just a few days many people will go out of their way to express their love to those dearest to their heart.  Some people feel that Valentine’s Day is just a commercialized holiday.  Some people believe that it is a day to intentionally show your […]

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